First & foremost, I want to extend peace, blessings, & prayers to all of you reading this. May your higher power be with you as we begin a new season of earthly life. Secondly, if you are reading this, congrats! You've survived another year on this God-forsaken planet, successfully navigating death, despair, poverty, disease (hopefully) & dozens of other misfortunate happenings that plenty of folks have succumbed to. So, no matter how bad things may appear, rejoice in your apparent resilience, & rest assured that, though another person's existence is by no means a measuring stick, there's always someone who's worse off than you. Whether that makes you happy or sad is your call. I'm just here to point shit out & provide commentary. All other assessments are yours to make. No need to thank me, but you are welcome, just in case.
However, I will thank you, for fucking with me. Pause-if that makes you uncomfortable. As I've stated several times, there's no tangible reason for cats & dogs & birds to come & read my words. I appreciate the fact that you deem me worthy of your time. Time, being the most expensive asset in the world, because once it's gone, it's gone, even if you're Marty McFly. When I was a kid, I was adamant on building a time machine, so once I got to a certain age, I could go back in time & do it again. When I grew up, I realized that even if I did that, I'd still grow old, but perhaps I'd be able to warn a youthful Tony Grands about avoidable missteps. Then I remembered some movies I'd seen about flux capacitors & space-time continuums, & my high started coming down, & I was off that. But anyway...
I want to share a few things I've learned this year, if I may. I've learned that the majority of your family has no blood relation to you. I've learned that life is short as hell, & if you're a Black man, over the age of 35, you are middle-aged. I'm creeping up on 34, so, yeah. I've learned that anger is a heavy burden, & forgiveness is an elusive state of mind, & the two cannot occupy the same space simultaneously. I haven't quite learned yet how to make the transition between the two, but I'm working on that. I'll keep you posted.
I've learned that women are easy to please, but men are too stubborn to see it. That one was actually a couple of years in the making, but now I have the solidified happiness to show & share with the world. I've learned that being a good parent is usually the deciding factor in the child's victories & failures. As well, I've learned that being a good parent is a trait that is born from humility, experience & a willingness to step back sometimes & let nature take it's course. I've learned that my parents aren't super heroes, or robots, but rather normal human beings, just like me. & no matter how hard I try, I'll never be a super hero, or robot, either. I've learned that mustard is good on any type of meat. Pause. I've learned that most adult humans can't digest milk, & those that can have a mutated gene. I've learned that A LOT of people don't really read the Bible, they just skim through to the "good" parts. I've learned that "the truth" is dependent on the eye of the beholder, like beauty, but actuality never, ever changes.
I've learned that more people love & respect me, than hate & despise me. I've learned that I love & respect more people than I hate & despise. Actually, I've learned that I really don't hate anyone, & quite possibly never have. Hate is a strong emotion. Stronger than most people can truly fathom. It's just such a fun word to toss around that it's lost it's edge, like "nigga". I've learned how gullible people fall in love over the Internet. Personality is the axis of attraction, even if physical qualities distract us. If one's personality is genuine, assuming they're being true, how could a bond not be formed, even without physical contact? I've learned that you don't have to meet someone in person for them to be a friend. & I've learned that a personal relationship with someone doesn't mean they're your friend, regardless of what they say. "They" always have something to say...
Don't you just love how Black folks love to end any ceremonious event with a shout out? On Court TV, I actually saw a dude rattle off "shout outs" as he was being escorted away for life imprisonment. Roffle mayo. Oh well, he'll think twice before he murders a prostitute again. But anyway, there's far too many cats who supported me over this last year or so, but I love y'all motherfuckers. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE! Thanks for the support, for believing in me, for the kind words, the intelligent exchanges, the real talks-when necessary, & basically being there for me, as well as giving me a reason to be here for y'all. Really though, I appreciate the appreciation.
Brand new year, brand new bullshit, same old nigga...Happy New Year, Bitches!
[tony's note: keep your goddamned gun(s) in the house tonight...please]
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Thursday, December 31, 2009
Monday, November 2, 2009
"You've Got (HATE) Mail"
I don't expect anyone to like me, or what I write for that matter. Frankly, when I do get a proverbial back pat, I'm surprised & appreciative. I get a mild kick when somebody says "good job, Grand$", or anything to that effect, like most people would. But, when I got this comment Sunday afternoon, it really caught me by surprise...
***Mr.O said....
I realize you will not blog for much longer simply because you can not write, do not have much to say that is innovative and all of your posts are the same. I love my kids, I suck at life, zzzzzz. You're like a Berenstein Bear (no shots) that is your lane you clearly are not that smart, be honest, but you seem to love your kids and thats what you should stick to writing about. You should not write about anything else because you lack any real depth, corporate perspective, where are your references, all you have is lame insults. You're a watered down version of your favorite writers. Honestly I'm simply being truthful you're a hack, probably well intentoned but a hack.
As far as reading your blog ban me, because im going to pop in and point out your idiocy constantly.
November 1, 2009 4:57 PM***
[tony's note: i printed that as is...the entire exchange is located in the comments of 'Sean Combs Wears Prada!'.]
Correct me if I'm wrong y'all, but that's quite a bit of hatred from a complete stranger, right? Not only does he know an awful lot about my content for somebody who thinks I'm a hack, but why even pay me any mind if I suck that immensely [||]? It's like that gallon of spoiled milk in the fridge that stinks to Jesus' sandals, yet one continues to come back & open the refrigerator door, pick it up, open the jug, & inhale the moldy stench. Then amazingly, repeat the steps soon there after. Personally, I say throw the shit out the very first time you decide, "Nah, this shit's not good at all...".
The whole process of subjecting one's self to anything so blatantly unpleasant is kind of bizarre
to me, but to each his own, or whatever. As an adult, I habitually stay away from things I don't like:
Gucci Mane's music. Penny loafers. Getting hit by cars. Fat women porn. Police. Stray dogs. Liars. The list is virtually endless, & it's not that hard, or at least it shouldn't be. But, Mr. O brought it to my attention that I'm not that smart, so then again, maybe I just don't know any better.
In case it isn't clear, very few things I say here should be taken seriously. I ASSumed by the title, that my snarky opinions would be understood as just that, unless I denoted otherwise. &, I've come to realize that those who truly fux with RAWIFDP know as much. Those who come here looking for truth & actuality should probably call their birth father or read the newspaper instead. I attempt to "entertain" people (or apparently not), nothing more. & if I happen to touch a spot where some realness shines through, that's an accidental bonus that clearly comes from a place of good intention.
After awhile, I got to thinking to myself, "Wow, maybe I do suck, & all these folks who read my shit, sometimes going as far as to give me props & respect on other websites, are just as dumb as I am...", but then I couldn't contain my laughter any longer. The good thing about the "Mr. O"'s of the (internets) world, is that they reminded us who write for the people, that for every 3-4 niggas who enjoy what we do, there's 5-6 cats who wait for a reason to piss in our cereal. But see, I wear my umbrella hat at the breakfast table, so I'm good.
It's not like I get paid, & I concluded long ago that I'll never be famous, or even remotely close to extremely popular. So in essence, I write because I like to write. I started my blog because I was nursing my brain back to functionality after almost drinking myself to death last year. Somehow, people started catching wind of what I was doing, & for the most part, it's been all love ever since.
There's a lot of people who dislike me already, & none of them are anonymous. They know me personally. Hell, most of them I'm related to. So, to have one more human in the long line of "Fuck Tony-ites" is no skin off of my back. Nobody likes to be "hated", but it's a part of life, so it is what it will be.
& for the record, I'm always accepting emails at tonygrands@gmail.com.
Like I always say, as long as folks keep reading I'll keep writing. Thanks for rolling with your dude, y'all...
***Mr.O said....
I realize you will not blog for much longer simply because you can not write, do not have much to say that is innovative and all of your posts are the same. I love my kids, I suck at life, zzzzzz. You're like a Berenstein Bear (no shots) that is your lane you clearly are not that smart, be honest, but you seem to love your kids and thats what you should stick to writing about. You should not write about anything else because you lack any real depth, corporate perspective, where are your references, all you have is lame insults. You're a watered down version of your favorite writers. Honestly I'm simply being truthful you're a hack, probably well intentoned but a hack.
As far as reading your blog ban me, because im going to pop in and point out your idiocy constantly.
November 1, 2009 4:57 PM***
[tony's note: i printed that as is...the entire exchange is located in the comments of 'Sean Combs Wears Prada!'.]
Correct me if I'm wrong y'all, but that's quite a bit of hatred from a complete stranger, right? Not only does he know an awful lot about my content for somebody who thinks I'm a hack, but why even pay me any mind if I suck that immensely [||]? It's like that gallon of spoiled milk in the fridge that stinks to Jesus' sandals, yet one continues to come back & open the refrigerator door, pick it up, open the jug, & inhale the moldy stench. Then amazingly, repeat the steps soon there after. Personally, I say throw the shit out the very first time you decide, "Nah, this shit's not good at all...".
The whole process of subjecting one's self to anything so blatantly unpleasant is kind of bizarre
to me, but to each his own, or whatever. As an adult, I habitually stay away from things I don't like:
Gucci Mane's music. Penny loafers. Getting hit by cars. Fat women porn. Police. Stray dogs. Liars. The list is virtually endless, & it's not that hard, or at least it shouldn't be. But, Mr. O brought it to my attention that I'm not that smart, so then again, maybe I just don't know any better.
In case it isn't clear, very few things I say here should be taken seriously. I ASSumed by the title, that my snarky opinions would be understood as just that, unless I denoted otherwise. &, I've come to realize that those who truly fux with RAWIFDP know as much. Those who come here looking for truth & actuality should probably call their birth father or read the newspaper instead. I attempt to "entertain" people (or apparently not), nothing more. & if I happen to touch a spot where some realness shines through, that's an accidental bonus that clearly comes from a place of good intention.
After awhile, I got to thinking to myself, "Wow, maybe I do suck, & all these folks who read my shit, sometimes going as far as to give me props & respect on other websites, are just as dumb as I am...", but then I couldn't contain my laughter any longer. The good thing about the "Mr. O"'s of the (internets) world, is that they reminded us who write for the people, that for every 3-4 niggas who enjoy what we do, there's 5-6 cats who wait for a reason to piss in our cereal. But see, I wear my umbrella hat at the breakfast table, so I'm good.
It's not like I get paid, & I concluded long ago that I'll never be famous, or even remotely close to extremely popular. So in essence, I write because I like to write. I started my blog because I was nursing my brain back to functionality after almost drinking myself to death last year. Somehow, people started catching wind of what I was doing, & for the most part, it's been all love ever since.
There's a lot of people who dislike me already, & none of them are anonymous. They know me personally. Hell, most of them I'm related to. So, to have one more human in the long line of "Fuck Tony-ites" is no skin off of my back. Nobody likes to be "hated", but it's a part of life, so it is what it will be.
& for the record, I'm always accepting emails at tonygrands@gmail.com.
Like I always say, as long as folks keep reading I'll keep writing. Thanks for rolling with your dude, y'all...
Monday, October 5, 2009
gone fishin'
Guess what?
I'm on a family vacation!First time ever, road trip & all. My wife's family lives in Louisiana, so we drove from Los Angeles to Shreveport to visit for a week. I've never been on a vacation in my life, so this is a new thing for me. I'm a creature of normalcy & routine. I like to know where my draws are, & that I can walk through the house in them & such. But, everybody needs time to cool their heels every now & then, I guess. You guy's have seven days to miss me, so enjoy yourselves while I'm gone. & don't do anything I wouldn't do.
But first...
I'd like to thank all of you, my supporters, who give me a reason to want to share my thoughts & opinions & snarcasm. I started my blog in January, & honestly, if I didn't have all y'all to write for, I would've stopped a long time ago. I'm deeply appreciative to be invited into your computers & enjoyed ([||] for the fellas) on a regular basis. Sometimes this site is my therapy, & I'm just thankful you guys have the patience, understanding & sense(s) of humor to ride with me. I'm not going to name names, but I know who my folks are. If you think this post is directed to you, there's a good chance it is.
So, even though I'll miss y'all, say a prayer for boy, & don't forget about me. & believe, when I get home, I'll have some stories to tell.
Be cool, & be careful motherfuckers. I'll holler next Monday.
*Btw, it says it on top of the page, but I'll say it again down here;
tonygrands@gmail.com
That's in case you business with me, or just want to chat*
In a minute...
I'm on a family vacation!First time ever, road trip & all. My wife's family lives in Louisiana, so we drove from Los Angeles to Shreveport to visit for a week. I've never been on a vacation in my life, so this is a new thing for me. I'm a creature of normalcy & routine. I like to know where my draws are, & that I can walk through the house in them & such. But, everybody needs time to cool their heels every now & then, I guess. You guy's have seven days to miss me, so enjoy yourselves while I'm gone. & don't do anything I wouldn't do.
But first...
I'd like to thank all of you, my supporters, who give me a reason to want to share my thoughts & opinions & snarcasm. I started my blog in January, & honestly, if I didn't have all y'all to write for, I would've stopped a long time ago. I'm deeply appreciative to be invited into your computers & enjoyed ([||] for the fellas) on a regular basis. Sometimes this site is my therapy, & I'm just thankful you guys have the patience, understanding & sense(s) of humor to ride with me. I'm not going to name names, but I know who my folks are. If you think this post is directed to you, there's a good chance it is.
So, even though I'll miss y'all, say a prayer for boy, & don't forget about me. & believe, when I get home, I'll have some stories to tell.
Be cool, & be careful motherfuckers. I'll holler next Monday.
*Btw, it says it on top of the page, but I'll say it again down here;
tonygrands@gmail.com
That's in case you business with me, or just want to chat*
In a minute...
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
...& now this commercial break...
A plug isn't shameless if you do it for someone else.....
Culture
http://www.bbcult.com
Federal Ranga
http://www.youtube.com/federalranga
ron mexico
http://www.ronmexicocity.com
...a few of my blog brethren who showed love [||], so it's a must that I return the favor. Check 'em out, for real though.
Shouts to all you cats who check me out & make this worth it; Capital G, $ykotic, J7, Shazzy5000, The Commission!, hell, everybody who fux with Tony Grand$ (you know who you are, my memory blows! [||]). I appreciate the love, real talk.
Here, put this in your pipe(s) & blaze;
You only live once. There is no room for regret in Heaven, & no sympathy in Hell. Forever is a long, long time....
Love yourself. If you do not, nobody will. &, if anybody else does, consider it a gift from God & act accordingly.....
Soulmates are imaginary, but lifemates are real. Go find one, it ain't that hard....
Close your mouth, open your eyes & do not hold your breath....
Raise your kids yourself. Otherwise, the world will. Children can not teach themselves....
Pray for the best, prepare for the worst. & in the meantime, smell the roses....
God sits high, but He looks low. No deed goes unrewarded or unpunished....
Know who you are, remember who you were, & focus on who you will be. Life stops for no one. Especially you....
Sleep is the cousin of Death. Love is the sister of Hate. Five minutes can change everything....
Blood is thicker than water, but money is thicker than blood....
Be your harshest critic, worst enemy & best friend. That limits the need for outside interaction....
Just because you are a human being, does not mean you are being human. Think about it....
Chase your dreams, but keep in mind, they had a head start.....
The Devil's got the whole world in his hands, not God....
Always keep enough change to make a phone call. Even if you have a cell....
Accept their apology & forgive them. They did not know any better....
Find eveything wrong with the shoes you are wearing. Then, go find a man without feet.....
A mistake is an accident the first time. After that, it is intentional....
Happy Hump-Day, folks.
One.
Culture
http://www.bbcult.com
Federal Ranga
http://www.youtube.com/federalranga
ron mexico
http://www.ronmexicocity.com
...a few of my blog brethren who showed love [||], so it's a must that I return the favor. Check 'em out, for real though.
Shouts to all you cats who check me out & make this worth it; Capital G, $ykotic, J7, Shazzy5000, The Commission!, hell, everybody who fux with Tony Grand$ (you know who you are, my memory blows! [||]). I appreciate the love, real talk.
Here, put this in your pipe(s) & blaze;
You only live once. There is no room for regret in Heaven, & no sympathy in Hell. Forever is a long, long time....
Love yourself. If you do not, nobody will. &, if anybody else does, consider it a gift from God & act accordingly.....
Soulmates are imaginary, but lifemates are real. Go find one, it ain't that hard....
Close your mouth, open your eyes & do not hold your breath....
Raise your kids yourself. Otherwise, the world will. Children can not teach themselves....
Pray for the best, prepare for the worst. & in the meantime, smell the roses....
God sits high, but He looks low. No deed goes unrewarded or unpunished....
Know who you are, remember who you were, & focus on who you will be. Life stops for no one. Especially you....
Sleep is the cousin of Death. Love is the sister of Hate. Five minutes can change everything....
Blood is thicker than water, but money is thicker than blood....
Be your harshest critic, worst enemy & best friend. That limits the need for outside interaction....
Just because you are a human being, does not mean you are being human. Think about it....
Chase your dreams, but keep in mind, they had a head start.....
The Devil's got the whole world in his hands, not God....
Always keep enough change to make a phone call. Even if you have a cell....
Accept their apology & forgive them. They did not know any better....
Find eveything wrong with the shoes you are wearing. Then, go find a man without feet.....
A mistake is an accident the first time. After that, it is intentional....
Happy Hump-Day, folks.
One.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
HEY, YOU GUYS!!!!!
Okay.
Busy week. My bad. But don't worry, whatever holiday is on Monday, I won't be celebrating, so at the beginning of next week, it will be back to business as usual.
But, let me take a quick second to thank my folks who've been supporting your boy (actually, I'm a man, but that wouldn't sound too kosher).
Shout outs to Capital G, Newyawka, JCITY, KrisRaestar, KayBee, ThaKemizt, Pierzy, $yko, SUPRSHAZ, my homegirl from NEANDEVERYTHING, FlapJack, Jordan, The COMMISSION, EmCDL, Jamal7Mile, my XXL comrads, Datwan Thomas (wherever you're at..), ______, ______, ______ & _______.
The blanks are for the names I can't remember. Feel free to whip out a Sharpie, & write your name on the computer screen. I have some kinks to work out on the site, so pretty soon, we can carry on the convo's in the comments.
Peace. & Oh yeah, go buy Meth & Red's BlackOut!2. I'm Tony Grands, & I support that album.
Dueces.
Busy week. My bad. But don't worry, whatever holiday is on Monday, I won't be celebrating, so at the beginning of next week, it will be back to business as usual.
But, let me take a quick second to thank my folks who've been supporting your boy (actually, I'm a man, but that wouldn't sound too kosher).
Shout outs to Capital G, Newyawka, JCITY, KrisRaestar, KayBee, ThaKemizt, Pierzy, $yko, SUPRSHAZ, my homegirl from NEANDEVERYTHING, FlapJack, Jordan, The COMMISSION, EmCDL, Jamal7Mile, my XXL comrads, Datwan Thomas (wherever you're at..), ______, ______, ______ & _______.
The blanks are for the names I can't remember. Feel free to whip out a Sharpie, & write your name on the computer screen. I have some kinks to work out on the site, so pretty soon, we can carry on the convo's in the comments.
Peace. & Oh yeah, go buy Meth & Red's BlackOut!2. I'm Tony Grands, & I support that album.
Dueces.
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